A little late, I know but Happy New Year everyone! I wanted to wish you a very happy, healthy 2014 and also to share with you what I learnt in 2013 (warts and all) and how those lessons will stay with me forever!
I guess the one thing that made the biggest impact was the passing of my mum late August last year. When her cancer came back with a bang in April last year, I felt so dizzy and shaken up but little did I know that a few months later mum would no longer be here to laugh or smile with and talk to. I couldn't imagine that my life could continue. What made it worse was my father-in-law passed away two months before my mum did. However, this is where I slowly smile, I have been taught how precious every day is and how utterly precious my family is. I remember how positive my mum was through everything she got thrown at her, how she took each day as it came and how her sense of humour always lightened the conversation. I have been shown how strong I am when I didn't think my life could continue without my mum in it. Maybe some of you know how this feels.
Through our difficult times in 2013, I have connected with many lovely ladies (and some guys) online who are so supportive of Con-fused Arts and even more lovely, they are people who know what it is like to be a working mum running your own business and all that comes with it. In particular, Charlie from Sophia's Choice who offer a fabulous range of natural and organic products for the whole family, Sharon from Miss Beau Bangles who sells a great range of ethical, eco-chic fashion accessories and Andrea from O So Beautiful who sells gorgeous good quality beauty products from Oriflame (all the way from Sweden) and Kendall from Kindness by Design who is constantly inspiring me with new ethical clothing/designers and much more. Thank you ladies for your conversations, support and encouragement!
So having left 2013 behind, I look back with very fond memories of my mum when she was well and her normal independent self but not so fond memories of the months before she passed. However, I am more determined than ever to look forward and make the most of everyday I am blessed with and I am more passionate than ever about empowering women around the world. 2014 promises to be a flourishing year, a year of new gorgeous ethical jewellery and perhaps branching out in other areas. A year of blogs, guest blogs, teaming up with other ethical businesses and most importantly FUN!
With all that 2013 taught me, I am ready to embrace 2014 with less worry, more determination, more focus, more patience and more love! What has 2013 taught you?
Pam x
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Saturday, 11 January 2014
Friday, 29 November 2013
A wonderful rewarding Christmas!
Hello, my name is Sharon and I
write the Miss Beau Bangles ethical fashion and lifestyle blog. I was recently
asked by Pam to write a blog post for her Con-fused Arts website on why it’s
important to buy fair trade or ethical Christmas gifts. I jumped at the chance.
I have followed Pam’s work for a while now and the work of the Kazuri women
whose stunning jewellery she sells for even longer, and I admire both greatly.
So it is an honour to be asked to express my humble views on Pam’s website and
I hope I do the opportunity justice.
If you are a follower of
Con-fused Arts’ work then you are probably well versed in what fair trade is
all about, so rather than a descriptive article on the benefits of fair trade,
I’ve decided to make this a personal piece that explains my own motivations to take
a more ethical approach to my Christmas shopping. For me, there are three
reasons why I will be shopping as ethically as possible this year:
Fairer Distribution of Wealth:
For me, the single most important
reason for shopping more ethically this Christmas is an economic one. I want to see a fairer distribution of wealth in
the retail industry.
The Centre for Retail Research
reported that Christmas spending among consumers in the UK was an estimated £70 billion in 2012. This
includes money spent in shops and online. £3 billion of that figure was spent
on Boxing day alone.
Wow! That is a lot of money for
one tiny little island to spend on one celebration. The vast majority of this
money is spent in a relatively small number of large multi-national retailers,
whose profits are paid out to shareholders. We shop there because it is easy.
These retailers have lots of money to put on amazing TV adverts to show us what
they sell and to entice us into their readily accessible and beautifully
decorated stores to buy their products. And at this time of year, we could all
do with making our lives easy, right!
Yet there are many small
businesses in your local area, and in developing countries all over the world
who make and sell amazing products, but as a small business they struggle every
day to compete in a fierce marketplace. They don’t have large marketing budgets
and many can’t afford a bricks and mortar store on a high street, and so they
are not so accessible to us as consumers. To be found, they require a little
effort from us in seeking them out.
But why should we seek them out?
Well, as I already mentioned, there are some fabulous products out there, but
I’ll come back to this point later. The other reason is that, without our
support, these small business cannot survive, yet they are hugely important to
the economies in which they exist. In developed countries they create a
diversity in terms of the products available to us as consumers, they can often
offer a much more personalised level of service to consumers, and they provide
a more diverse range of employment opportunities for the communities in which
they are located.
In developing countries, small
businesses that operate with a fair trade ethos have an even more pronounced
importance. These businesses are empowering their employees and helping them to
move out of poverty, thereby improving the chances that they and their children
will have access to improved health, education and quality of life. In
developing countries these small, fair trade businesses can be a matter of life
or death for some people. To me, that’s got to be something worth keeping, and
if we want to keep them, they need our business.
Supporting Businesses that Value Human Rights:
My second reason for shopping
more ethically this Christmas is a human rights issue. For years we have been
reading about poor working conditions in the factories that supply many of our
largest retailers. However this year the issue has been brought into much
sharper focus after over 1,000 people were killed when the Rana Plaza building
collapsed in Bangladesh. Many more lost their lives this year in numerous
factory fires caused by unsafe working practices. And as BBC’s Panorama
programme, “Dying for a Bargain” recently revealed, some factories operate a compulsory
overtime policy that has people working as much as 18 hours per day.
When shopping on the High Street,
it is hugely difficult as consumers to know whether or not we are buying from a
store which uses factories that operate humanely and safely. For that reason, I
have chosen to make an effort where possible to seek out retailers who I can be
sure value the human rights of their employees and those in their supply chain
at least as much as they value profits. Surely, in this day and age, with the
vast wealth that exists, asking for employees to be treated humanely and not
like slaves is not too much to ask. The businesses that understand this are the
ones I want to spend my money with.
Gifts that Reflect the Essence of Christmas:
Thirdly, shopping more ethically
is a great way to find gifts that are the true essence of Christmas. I
mentioned earlier that small and fair trade businesses offer some fantastic products.
Many of these products are not widely available and so have a special
uniqueness. Many are handmade and so are truly individual. Many can be
personalised, and many have a fabulous story to tell, such as that of the
jewellery made by the Kazuri ladies.
One of the product stories I love, is of a group of Senegalese ladies who call themselves Groupement Takku Liggey.
These ladies lead a hand to mouth existence, selling things like fish, rice,
cold water and donuts at a local market to survive. A few years ago, with the
support of a woman from Edinburgh they began making products such as shopper bags,
tablecloths, and aprons using African print fabrics they bought locally. These
products are now being sold in small quantities in various countries around the
world, and with their first profits the ladies have bought two cows for the
co-operative to rear and sell, bringing benefits and further income to be
shared among the community. You can see one of the women pictured above with
one of the cows. Isn’t that a wonderful smile!
Now imagine the faces of your
family and friends as you give them their ethical gift and they hear the story
behind it, appreciate its uniqueness and admire the craftsmanship that has gone
into it. By taking a little time to look beyond the major retailers this year, I’ve
uncovered some wonderful products with some wonderful stories, and I’m sure you
will to.
How to get Started
I hope after reading this blog
post you are feeling at least a little inspired. If you are, then you may be
wondering how to begin shopping more ethically this Christmas. If you are
looking for jewellery, of course Con-fused Arts is a great place to start. Over
at Miss Beau Bangles I have written a blog post that makes some suggestions for
great ethical Christmas gifts, including a fair trade recipe book, bamboo
socks, and a recycled tyre wallet from Traidcraft; jewellery from Con-fused
Arts and Miss Beau Bangles; and an eco-soy candle from Robin & Rose. Why
not try doing an internet search for “ethical gifts”, or if you know what you
are looking for, try sticking the word ethical or fair trade at the start of
your search term. You might also want to seek out some blogs that have an
ethical focus, as these are a great source of advice and inspiration. Facebook
has some fabulous businesses selling fair trade and handmade products so why
not follow a few.
Whatever route you choose, I hope
your friends and family love their ethical gifts, and I hope you all have a
truly wonderful festive period.
Sharon x
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Saturday, 6 April 2013
Be Bold, This Spring!
Henry Ford
Everyone's idea of success is different. For some, it is being able to read and write, for some it's having a big family and for some it's a professional career. What is your idea of success? What makes your heart sing?
I challenge you to be BOLD, I challenge you to do something that makes you feel alive. If like a lot of people, you are busy, juggling jobs, kids, the house - being bold may not be doing something for someone else but it could be doing something for yourself like booking a massage, going for a walk, doing a new exercise class.
In the very early days of Con-fused Arts, I made greeting cards and lavender sachets but this quickly changed. I decided to be BOLD, I decided to stand up for women who have many more struggles in life than me, struggles to live a dignified optimistic life. Women who deserve a job with security, fair wages, trade union rights,
no sexual harassment or mental stress. Some overseas factories
working for the UK fashion industry which on the surface look clean and modern, workers are often deprived of their
internationally-recognised basic rights.
Our passion is helping and supporting these strong amazing ladies as well as supporting the women who buy and wear our jewellery. Currently,
our most popular range of luxury ethical jewellery comes from Kazuri, Kenya. The
400 local women at Kazuri, who are mostly single mothers, handcraft every piece
of jewellery, from the beads being shaped to painted, glazed and strung. There
is heart, feeling and personality in every necklace, bracelet and pair of
earrings. Not only does Kazuri provide employment
opportunities for single mothers and disadvantaged women in Kenyan society but
the company also hosts a medical clinic that provides free medical care for its
employees and their families.
So whatever you do, why not be BOLD, it could be for yourself or for someone else. It's a new season, time for CHANGE!Friday, 22 February 2013
Mother's Day Contest
Con-fused Arts are passionate about supporting women and wants to celebrate
mothers and mother figures around the world. We’re launching our first themed contest on Pinterest and you’re invited! Get that creativity going, because we’re looking forward to seeing some gorgeous inspirational boards to celebrate your mum in 2013.
To enter, create a board, title it “I love Mum” then add a description to your board. Make sure your board contains the above competition pin above, 3 jewellery pins from our "We Love Mum" board in no particular order. In each pin’s caption, include the hashtags #Con-fusedArts and #Mother's Day. When your board is perfect, share it with us by posting a comment on the original contest announcement pin, with a link to your board, located in our “We Love Mum".
Make sure to check the details below. Your board could win one of Con-fused Arts jewellery pieces that you pin to your new board and inspire our future trends throughout 2013!
To enter, create a board, title it “I love Mum” then add a description to your board. Make sure your board contains the above competition pin above, 3 jewellery pins from our "We Love Mum" board in no particular order. In each pin’s caption, include the hashtags #Con-fusedArts and #Mother's Day. When your board is perfect, share it with us by posting a comment on the original contest announcement pin, with a link to your board, located in our “We Love Mum".
Make sure to check the details below. Your board could win one of Con-fused Arts jewellery pieces that you pin to your new board and inspire our future trends throughout 2013!
- You must follow @confusedarts on Pinterest to enter.
- Contest ends 5th March 3pm GMT.
- Each pin must include the hashtags #Con-fusedArts and #Mother's Day.
- Only one entry board per person.
- Boards will be judged based on creativity, Con-fused Arts spirit and adherance to the guidelines.
- The winner will be notified by e-mail March 2013. In order to be notified, please sign up by clicking HERE.
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Thursday, 7 February 2013
Do the green thing does Valentine's Day!
After Christmas, Valentine's Day is one of the biggest waste producing days of the year. Over a billion cards get posted and untold amounts of unwanted, unloved and un-inspired tat gets presented in pink and red wrapping.
Free yourself from the consumer-driven Valentine's Day and instead celebrate it with a bit of upcycled thinking and some crafty ideas. We've picked five of our green gift ideas to help you spread the love.
1. Happy memories
Gather up all the photos, cinema tickets, love notes and that beer mat from your first date and glue your way to a collage of love.
2. The way to the heart is through the stomach.
Bake their favourite cake, cook up their most loved dinner and if you want to add the extra bells and whistles then almost anything can be heart shaped. Cookies, cakes, pancakes, waffles, sandwiches, fried eggs, omelettes, pizzas, the list goes as far as your imagination and kitchen prowess.
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3. Flowers forever
Forget single wrapped red roses and bunches of flowers that will die before the weekend hits, give the gift that keeps on giving - a packet of seeds for your beloved to grow their own bunch, be it flowers or carrots.
4. Weekend away
If no Valentine's Day is complete without a huge romantic gesture then forget writing a message in the sky and whisking them away to a secluded island. Book the Eurostar to Paris and walk hand in hand through the city of love. Or try Amsterdam for a less obvious trip.
5. Get your craft on
If you're the kind of lover that likes to show your love in glue and glitter then the possibilities are endless. And you don't need a craft box full of expensive materials either. Collect sticks for a hanging wooden heart, turn newspaper into heart bunting or fold your way to these adorable origami hearts with a message of love hidden inside.
And remember, showering together saves water and if the night goes well then don't forget these.
Happy Valentine's Day.
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Thursday, 9 February 2012
Just like Christmas cards that we can re-cycle or pass on to others, we can also re-cycle used stamps that we receive on our mail. Great if you already do this, but not everyone is aware of the good we can do.
It woudl just take a few minutes to cut out the stamps from envelopes and packages (I actually look forward to the therapeutic activity of neatly cutting round stamps), store them and after you have collected a few, they can be sent to various charities.
It obviously depends where your heart lies but there are animal charities such as, Hearing Dogs are taking used stamps CLICK HERE. Other animal charities include RNIB and RSPB Save the Albatross.
Medical charities include Brittle Bone Society and Leukaemia Care. All these charities will ask you to separate UK stamps and foreign stamps and send them separately. As I have a lot more UK stamps, I send those ones away more often and then wait longer until I gather up enough foreign stamps to make it worthwhile sending!
Happy neat cutting (ha ha maybe I need help!)
Pam
It woudl just take a few minutes to cut out the stamps from envelopes and packages (I actually look forward to the therapeutic activity of neatly cutting round stamps), store them and after you have collected a few, they can be sent to various charities.
It obviously depends where your heart lies but there are animal charities such as, Hearing Dogs are taking used stamps CLICK HERE. Other animal charities include RNIB and RSPB Save the Albatross.
Medical charities include Brittle Bone Society and Leukaemia Care. All these charities will ask you to separate UK stamps and foreign stamps and send them separately. As I have a lot more UK stamps, I send those ones away more often and then wait longer until I gather up enough foreign stamps to make it worthwhile sending!
Happy neat cutting (ha ha maybe I need help!)
Pam
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